Monday, November 9, 2015

The One Where Alex and Stacey Are Lost For 6 Hours

This was certainly an adventurous week. I came to grips with the fact that I tend to over think things. A lot. So I decided to attempt to have more of a "fly by the seat of your pants" attitude, especially on Saturday. Things I learned with this attempt: I am awfully stubborn, especially when facing defeat. And when I have to accept defeat, my pride is hurt. Big time. More to come on this...

MONDAY
Bek and I went to the Museum of London and the Guildhall Art Gallery.
Olympic Torch, Museum of London
I love being at museums when they are uncrowded. Walking into an empty hall or gallery is exhilarating for me.
Roman Coliseum, Guildhall
TUESDAY
Homework, ice cream with Bean, then Soho with Austin and some of the friends that I've made from the YSA ward. We got Chinese steam buns, which were wonderful and warm, especially with the brisk, damp English air that seeps into your bones, no matter how many layers you have on. After this excursion to Soho, we went to Institute, where the lesson was on charity. It was such a good reminder of such an important principle and attribute that I desire to possess. Please enjoy one of my favourite quotes from President Monson of this subject:

Charity is having the patience with someone who has let us down. It is resisting the impulse to become offended easily. It is accepting weaknesses and shortcomings. It is accepting people as they truly are. It is looking beyond physical appearances to attributes that will not dim through time. It is the impulse to categorize others.

WEDNESDAY
There aren't many other ways I would rather start my morning than by visiting St. Paul's.


View from the lower level of the dome.
Some days, you just need some good ole Thai street food from Borough Market.
 We had the opportunity to attend the Ai Wei Wei art exhibit and the Royal Academy of Art. Wei Wei is a modern artist/human and political rights activist from China, who has been banished, jailed, and is now living with a very limited passport/visa, and is only allowed to leave his country for brief periods of time. He faced execution several years ago for his opposition as displayed through art, but the Chinese government lifted this order, due to pressure from the rest of the world who support Wei Wei.
Ai Wei Wei art exhibit at the Royal Academy of Art




The materials here came from the ruins of the earthquake that plagued China back in 2008. Supposedly, the government has knowingly built many of the schools and other public buildings poorly throughout the years, to save money. The earthquake killed hundreds of school children across the country; Wei Wei took the rebarb from the ruins of these schools, straightened it by hand, and created this.


Ancient vase (from the Ming Dynasty?) that has been painted over with utility paint and modern logos. 
Bike chandelier
  

THURSDAY
Happy Guy Fawkes Day! After classes, some of my colleagues and I had the opportunity to tour the "Freedom Form Torture" headquarters here in London, which was very interesting. Following this and dinner, I attended Institute, after which some of us went out into the city, following (from a safe distance, mind you) the path of the protesters. It was crazy! I have never seen so many law enforcement vehicles and officers in my life. The purpose of the Million Mask March was to protest the government: freedom from gov. censorship, no more war, we don't like our leaders, etc. The usual protester stuff. People will never be 100% pleased with who is leading the people. But that's because it's people leading the people, and as we all know, we are human. We make mistakes. We are not perfect. Something that is good for one person may not be good for another. If the government is truly violating a human right, I am all in favor of speaking out in an attempt for change. However, rioting, burning police cars, hurting others, etc. because you feel like you pay too much in taxes is NOT the way to do it. But maybe that's just me.
FRIDAY
Day trip! Newstead Abbey and Beth Shalom (House of Peace) Holocaust Centre
Trish, our tour guide at Newstead, tells us the eerie story
of Lord Byron and his infamous goblet made from the
skull of a deceased monk, that had been found in the
garden.



The National Holocaust Centre was heavy, but I was so happy to have had the opportunity to visit. We were fortunate enough to have a Holocaust survivor from Germany, Ruth, speak with us for a while. It was such a neat experience. As sobering as it was, it also instilled hope for the future, that we can learn from past mistakes and misdeeds, and move forward with an eye to improvement in the world and how we treat others.
 

SATURDAY
After spending the night outside of Nottingham, we traveled to Chatsworth House. For you Pride and Prejudice fans, that's supposedly the model of the home of Mr. Darcy.



I bet none of y'all knew I was the bridge troll from every story with a bridge troll in the history of ever.
The weather was so crazy! Super windy and rainy...so
much so that my umbrella broke.


Hanging out with the sheep and thinking about life.

Bletchley Park: the location where many codes during WWII were cracked. Think "The Imitation Game." Also, the home of the most magnificent outdoor chess board.




"Sometimes it is the very people who no one imagines
anything of who do the things that no one can imagine."
-Christopher Morc

Recreation of "Christopher"
Taking names and cracking codes...a day in the life.
Playing on said chess board.
I am the humblest of winners. Can't you tell?
So. Saturday night, I wanted to go to a bonfire party I was invited to. It was a little bit of a trek out of London, but I decided to have this "fly by the seat of your pants" attitude, and just go for it. Life's too short. We'll figure it out. We'll get there. Darling Stacey accompanied me (I'm so glad she did), and we ran into one closed door after another. The plan had been to get to Victoria train station, meet up with a group who knew where they were going, then go to this party. Well. We missed the train by 54 seconds. We got on the next one, and tried to find a bus that would take us to the location. After visiting 4 bus stops, missing the bus we needed to take, visiting another 3 bus stops, getting on a bus to take us to a point where we needed to transfer, missing our stop (ending up an hour away at a hospital in the middle of nowhere), getting the wrong directions from a bus driver, ending up at a different train station, getting on yet another wrong bus, and being dropped off, yet again, in the middle of nowhere (not even at a bus stop!),  walking a ways back to the train station, waiting for the next train, then, eventually, getting home, I was rather discouraged. As we waited for the train to take us back to London, we both laughed, and cried, and laughed some more. We spent 6 hours trying to get to this party. And, apparently, at one point, had been just a 10 minute walk from the location, but we didn't know, since neither of us have cell phones that work over here. I was so sad. And it wasn't even so much that we missed the party, more of "I just spent 6 hours in some town I don't know trying to find a party and I'm cold and tired and hungry and there are no facilities anywhere in sight." At many times throughout the night, Stacey and I said "if this bus doesn't come by this time, let's go home." Or "we'll try this, and if it doesn't work, we'll go home." We were both so stubborn and determined to make it to this party, we just kept going. And it truly hurt my pride that we didn't make it; it was a very humbling night. But, I am still so glad it happened. It's hard to explain why, but I just am. Hence why we laughed in between our sobs. Sometimes, even when things go horribly wrong or life gives you every reason not to, you just need to laugh.

Laughing on the inside because I go back to the states in one month from tomorrow.

Sunday, November 1, 2015

The Healing Waters of Bath Could Not Save Me From the Plague

I had a very uplifting and enriching week, especially with my experience at church today. I learned a lot about myself: things I appreciate and love and value so highly. 

MONDAY
Rebekah, Emma, Jordan, and I visited Hampton Court. My favourite part of this excursion was walking the grounds; they were the epitome of the Autumn season. Crunchy leaves everywhere, vibrant golds, oranges, and reds blanketing the ground, that crisp air as you breathe in deeply. It was wonderful.

TUESDAY
Bek, Emma, and I visited the Banqueting House on White Hall. It is such a magnificent building; you walk up a flight of stairs into a large, very open room. There, you may sit on bean bags in you fancy, and stare up at the astounding ceiling painted by Rubens.

Visiting the Banqueting House was an assignment. This means, that for homework, I went and sat on a bean bag for 45 minutes to stare at the ceiling. London is brilliant.

WEDNESDAY
Day trip! We started off the day by busing out to Wales. It was INCREDIBLE. I cannot begin to describe the vividness and intensiveness of the green. It is such that it cannot be duplicated, unless seen by your eye. We visited Tintern Abbey, which has by far been the most beautiful thing I have seen while on my trip.



 



I spy with my little eye...a lovely bride and groom!

Next up, we traveled to Bath, where we spent the rest of our day.
Bath Abbey
Roman Bath House





Being ever so candid at lunch.
 

Mozart.
One of the things I learned this week: I really regret
not keeping up with playing the violin.

THURSDAY
A fairly lazy day, as I was recovering from rigorous studying for a midterm. I attending institute at the Hyde Park Chapel in the evening, which was grand. It's been really neat to be able to mingle with the young single adults group here, to interact with the local members, learn about their lives, etc. It's something that is truly enriching my experience here. 

FRIDAY
We were scheduled to visit St. Paul's in the morning, but as the Golden Dome was closed, we decided to go another day. I explored the city for a while by myself, then caught up on some homework. Bek and I adventured to Holland Park in the evening, then returned to the flat to don our group costume: The Black Death, the PLAGUE, the very illness in the FLESH. Yes, my friends, we are that nerdy: we dressed up as the Bubonic Plague for Halloween.

We represented three different aspects of the plague. Rebekah was the disease itself, bringing death wherever she went.
I was the rat, the spreader of said death.
Emma: a plague victim, on the verge of dying from this historic illness.
#nerdalert
SATURDAY
Another day of getting stuff done before going out into the city. Austin and I went to Covent Gardens for delicious crepes, then wandered around the area. We went to Byron's (a burger joint) to get shakes for dessert, but were kicked out. Yes. We were kicked out of a restaurant. Why, might you ask? We just wanted to order shakes. And apparently you are not allowed to do that when they are busy. So we were asked to leave. Yup. 
Following that adventure, our program group went to see "The Woman in Black" at the Fortune Theatre. It was CRAZY good. I definitely screamed out loud, multiple times...like, I lost count of how many, it happened so frequently. It was incredible and spine-chilling.

What's Halloween night, without a party, right? Hosted by our friends Robin and Eliot, it was held at a cool flat in Chelsea, complete with a rooftop dance party, solid English party food, and a scary movie.



SUNDAY
It has been such a blessing, eye-opening, and humbling experience to have the opportunity of attending church here. Attending church has become a sort of all day event for me. I leave around 8:30 a.m. to catch the tube and a bus to church. After church, I have the privilege of teaching piano lessons to a couple of primary children, which I love. It has been such a great chance for me to share my talents with others; as I do, my skills have become stronger and greater than they could have done by mere practicing alone. I arrive at home around 2:30-3 p.m. It's a very full day of church, but I would not have it any other way. Being a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints gives my life purpose and meaning; I don't always have all the answers, and I never will. But I have felt of the sweet peace the gospel brings, of having a relationship with my Heavenly Father and my Saviour, Jesus Christ, of feeling of their love for me, of having my silent prayers answered in moments of need, in ways that cannot be counted as coincidence. This gives me such great hope. And that is enough for me.

"We have but faith; 
We cannot know, 
For knowledge is of things we see; 
And yet we trust it comes from Thee,
A bean in darkness;
Let it grow."
Alfred, Lord Tennyson 


Here are a couple of photos from last week's adventures that missed the blog! 

Train ride at Blenheim Palace to the Pleasure Gardens.
My heart is so full of joy for life. It is a wondrous thing, even with its ups, downs, curves, and setbacks.